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Home » Interesting Discussions » Simplify your life – Downsize your wallet

Simplify your life – Downsize your wallet

March 13, 2020 Paris B 9 Comments

For most of my life, my approach to owning a wallet is thus – get the biggest one you can find, that can fit the most number of cards. You never know when it will come in useful.

In fact, when I bought my last wallet, I walked into the store and literally said this – “I’d like to see your biggest wallet that can fit the most number of cards!”

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I was shown their largest model, that fit a whopping 16 cards, with multiple compartments for bills and notes and receipts, and I picked it up on the spot. It was a whopper, but it served me very well for well on 5 years.

Now, I use one that barely fits 6 credit cards, has just 1 compartment for bills and a little coin pouch. What changed? 😀

Smaller wallet = Simpler Life

Well, what changed was my lifestyle.

When my lifestyle took a turn for something more relaxed and more casual, my needs similarly scaled down.

I wasn’t out and about for long hours, that necessitated my carrying everything I needed, and thought I needed. I could pop in and out to run my errands, and I could bring just what I needed each time, instead of trying to anticipate what I might need.

I also removed most of my loyalty cards or gift cards that I kept in my wallet “just in case” I needed them. I removed all the bits of paper that I did not need, and pared everything down to the bare minimum – ID, Driving License, Credit Card and ATM card.

I am not a member of many loyalty programmes anymore, and in any case, most of them can be accessed using your phone number or NRIC number. Some programmes even have phone apps, which makes it much more convenient.

If I have cash vouchers or a gift card that needs spending, I TRY to remember to bring them out with me. Sometimes I remember, often I don’t LOL! 😛 Using a separate pouch to hold your lesser-used cards is helpful too, if you’d like to stay a little more organized.

I struggled a little at the beginning, trying to go from a behemoth of a wallet with 16 card slots, to one that barely fit 6 cards. But eventually, I got used to it.

Suddenly, it felt as it a weight had lifted off my shoulders. Figuratively and literally! 😀 I wondered why I’d waited so long to make this switch!

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The larger the wallet, the bigger the bag you need to carry

There’s a euphamism in there LOL! 😀

Carrying a large wallet necessitates you carrying a larger bag. While it did not use to be a problem for me when I was working full time, it became more of an issue when I stopped.

I found that I had to carry larger bags simply to tote my wallet about. It felt ridiculous and heavy. I could go out with just my wallet, but a clutch isn’t a hands-free option.

Scaling down my wallet allowed me to swap my bags out for smaller, lighter bags, and in many instances, to go out without carrying a bag at all!

I felt liberated! 😀

My bags however, are beginning to gather dust LOL! 😛

I felt that this too is a euphamism for life. Using a large wallet is convenient, but it may also result in you carrying around a lot of additional nonsense, like receipts or scraps of paper and cards that you may not otherwise need.

A smaller, more simple wallet forces you think of only carrying what you need, which translates into you thinking only of owning what you need. We want a lot, and we may buy a lot “just in case” but how much of it is necessary?

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Only carry the necessities

My new wallet was one I bought a few years ago but did not use till recently. While it isn’t as tiny as a cardholder, it is fairly small and only barely fits my necessities.

It forced me to think about what I need with me, day-to-day. It took a little bit of trial and error before I got it right, but when I did, it’s been smooth-sailing since.

I’ve almost forgotten what it was like carrying a wallet that was stuffed full of bits of paper. I do keep receipts, but I could go for months before I cleared everything out of my wallet.

Now, I have to ensure that I clear it out regularly, or my wallet would not button shut 😛 It also forces me to be more organized with my receipts and paper scraps.

Eventually, I realised that I did not need very much. Life and our needs, just like what I carry in my wallet, is often very simple. It is us who complicate it by stuffing in more than we need, and in carrying around baggage that we should clear out often.

I was thinking about this, when I cleared out my small wallet recently, and felt oddly contented.

And that was a life lesson all on its own.

Do you carry a large wallet or a small one?

One day, I might even downsize further to a cardholder! But I find it hard to depend too much on credit cards. I’m old-fashioned, I still need to carry cash around! 😛

Paris B

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  1. xin says

    March 13, 2020 at 9:59 am

    Welcome to the small wallet life!

    I tried using a bifold wallet for a few months but the bifold is too big and thick for me. None of my small bags fits the bifold! So I am back to small wallet again. When you have space constraint, you tend to keep less rubbish as well. ^_^

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  2. synical says

    March 13, 2020 at 10:17 am

    I use a trifold and despite the 6 card slots, I manage to squeeze in about 12 cards total, give or take. All the other cards I don’t use that much/got app/etc goes into different card holder. I never was a believer in the huge wallet movement. But the choices of small wallet out there is not great, lagi lah cos I’m particular about the style I’m used to, so once I find a brand I tend to stick to it.

    Tried using a bifold wallet for a bit, but I have too many cards domestically, so that wallet is now my “Singapore” wallet cos it’s got what I would need when I occasionally travel there: ez-link card, SGD, few loyalty cards, etc. The annoying thing about it because of the RFID blocking lining, I have to take ez-link card out to use.

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  3. LeGeeque says

    March 13, 2020 at 10:25 am

    Oh my! I went through so many wallets until I finally found the one. Then, life took a turn and like you, I no longer need to carry my life with me each time I head out. I have really just the card holder with a key ring to hook my car keys to. In the card holder: ID, ATM card, credit card, Costco card – which I have to flick the physical card and $5 in cash which can last me for months.

    I can’t remember the last time I actually took out my credit card to be swiped because I use Apple Pay for everything. One app that’s handy to store all your loyalty cards would be Stocard. Look into it. It’s primarily for Australian retailers but it allows you to just scan and keep a barcode in and name it after your store. E.g. My library doesn’t exist as a pre-existing “store” in the app’s list. I scan my library card in and just rename it to Eastern Region Libraries (or something). It’s worked well each time.

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  4. Tine says

    March 13, 2020 at 11:03 am

    I used large long wallets for many years before I switched to a small wallet (very similar to yours but mine is in Empreinte) last year. Best thing I’ve done for my bag, I tell ya. I have a small coin purse for additional cards which hold important cards like Medicare, coffee cards (important for free coffees hee hee) and a library card. All of my loyalty cards are in the Stocard app, which is fantastic. Like Geek, I rarely pay in cash anymore; almost everything is paid with Apple Pay using my phone. Small wallets. What a great idea!

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  5. Annie says

    March 13, 2020 at 10:59 pm

    I much prefer smaller wallets. Mind sharing with us which model of smaller wallet did you get recently? I’m keeping an eye out for one.

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  6. Adrienne says

    March 14, 2020 at 1:14 am

    Oh dear! The 16-card-slot wallet! I recall getting the looks when I requested my last wallet so as the shopkeeper implied I must be a bargain hunter or lived my life on credit card minimum payments (well these snobbish shopkeepers don’t like to deal with either of these 2 customers as they are not big enough spenders for them).

    I transitioned from using biggest wallets holding cards and vouchers to phone case that has card / cash slots so I need only carry my phone when out and about, even ditching the coin purse. My kids helped (or forced haha!) me with that transition.

    Agree with the feeling of liberations. I do still like most of my wallets but am not frustrated by not able find a sizable stylish wallet anymore

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  7. kuri says

    March 14, 2020 at 9:11 am

    I’ve shifted to a card case too! It is quite freeing to not have much. But I’m looking for something like what you’re using as I need some cash on hand.
    In general it’s difficult for me to use a smaller purse because I feel like I “need” all these things just in case, but I’ve shifted in that direction in the past few months.

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  8. Susin says

    March 14, 2020 at 5:45 pm

    Hi Paris, I’m using small wallet now. But I still a cash person.
    Love all the articles you wrote. Please keep on writing…

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  9. Deborah says

    March 15, 2020 at 11:52 am

    I use.. A coin pouch with a smart compartment to lump all my cards. It’s a drastic change from years of using long purses and it certainly gets a lot of looks cause people don’t expect me to pull out a tiny thing like it.

    That aside, I find it easier to do so now that I mostly use apps/phone numbers/ID. And e-wallets are a blessing at places that don’t accept credit cards

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